On Creativity: A Letter to My Children

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[She will be miffed at me for saying this, but it would not surprise me at all to find that, in twenty or thirty years time, my singular claim to fame was being friends with Rebecca Reynolds. She is one of the finest writers I have ever read, combining profound intelligence with wizardly worsdmithery, and besides that she’s a real swell gal. The “Letters” series she has been sharing at Story Warren has been priceless, connecting deeply to so many readers. This one, “On Creativity”, seems especially appropriate for The Rabbit Room crowd. —S.D. “Sam” Smith]


 

There was a bad storm rolling, so we piled in the basement to wait it out. As far as I can remember, I was five, which means it was probably the spring of 1977.

Your grandparents have always been fond of simple, self-driven entertainment. They respected me enough to believe I could find something worthwhile to do in an hour alone, so they handed me a pencil and seven pieces of pink paper. The pages were ripped from a carbon copy stack, fronts scribbled with charts and numbers, backs blank with potential. Mom showed me how to fold them in half and staple the middle to make a binding.

I sat on the cool concrete floor and began to mark out chubby new sentences.

“Once there was a wolf. He did not eat girls. He ate wolf food.”

It was the first time I had ever written a story. I remember distinctly because my life is divided in two by that day. March lightning crashed somewhere distant while a sharp thrill ran through my arms and up into my brain. Stories could be made, and I had the power to guide them.

It should have been a given, I suppose. There’s a certain ontology about the thing, like a watch found on the beach. Yet I remember how strange it was to me in the beginning, because stories didn’t seem like made things. They seemed like things that had always existed.

Baby brothers grew in the swollen belly of my mother, and this was completely logical. I had seen puppies born, and I knew human infants were also barfing, pooping creatures who squawled for milk and chewed their own paws. Progeny was a comic reduction, that was how the thing worked. We giggled and condescended over our creations, for the most precious reflections that we could stir together emerged weak, helpless, and dribbling out mashed peas. Stories, on the other hand, were perfect. Stories seemed better than we were, not lesser. I wouldn’t have been more shocked if someone had handed me a magic wand.

For in fact, a magic wand had been handed to me. Typing this to you now, electricity still runs up and down my arms. I have never recovered from the invitation.

Watch, here. Watch how it works! I might write any word next that I like – any word at all. If I am careful, I can make you remember how your sheets feel cool at the bottom of your bed in the morning or how the ocean wind runs like a woman’s hand through your hair. I can bond us or divide us. I can tend to you, or I can wound you. I can help you see things I have seen. I can show you a dark night on foreign waters, then speak into it, “Let there be light,” for the Maker made me a sort of maker, too.

There is a reverence to it, Child. I felt it from the first moment I saw how the thing worked. A story emerges from the womb of a soul, screaming and sucking in the air of our world, exhaling the air of another.

All my life your grandmother kept a quote taped on our refrigerator. It was a wrinkled bit of paper, clipped from a magazine, hidden between recipes for oatcakes and newspaper pictures. “Give me twenty-six lead soldiers, and I will conquer the world.”

I always knew it was a commission.

And will you, Child? Will you conquer the world? How will you do it?

I have spent sixteen years watching you all grow into such fine, strong things. I listened when you asked Jesus to dwell in your hearts. I have seen you make wise, hard choices and learn from failures. You have gifts beyond what I could have bestowed upon you.

You take up simple things: paper, pencils, clay, wood, string, cans, leather, insects, instruments, and found bits with industry in your eyes and fire in your minds. Beholding you, I have worshiped God with an awe stronger than that which ran through me when I was five, sitting on the cold concrete floor, watching letters make words, watching words make sentences, watching sentences make a book. Here a new story is coming to life. The image of the Creator of creators is alive in you.

The Grand Artist danced glory through the firmament. He established rhythms of science and beauty; then He bestowed upon you also some small bit of His ability to separate land from sea, light from darkness, to organize gardens and medicines, and to grow up food for a world that hungers.

He waits each morning like a master artist preparing for a pupil, distributing planting and cultivating, offering an eternal communion. For you were made imago Dei. You are a vessel formed for filling.

Sometimes you feel the vacancy of working your lone self, don’t you? It is like an itch or an ache, like a drawing that needs to be put to paper, like a story unwritten, like a mathematical equation unfigured, like an experiment untested. The stuff of man thirsts for the indwelling Creator, thirsts for those rivers of sweet water that never run dry. It is such a tender kindness that He offers us a sort of co-creation with Him. Good works were prepared for us from the beginning, good works we cannot do alone. These creations are to be wrought through our particular temperament and training in the power of holy company.

Because the gift is powerful, there is a sobriety to it, as well. Men and women have set off boldly to make things for Jesus, and they have done damage instead. In fact, I have made this mistake myself too often. I will caution you then a little. Mind the Bible. Mind the wisdom of good elders. Mind the temptation to do for God instead of in God. Run to Him unguarded for alignment, willing to hear whatever He says to you. Walk filled with Him, for you are filled with Him.

Then go as He leads. Go with all your heart. Makings and cultivatings of a thousand sorts are waiting. There are sick to tend. Meals to stir together. Songs to sing. Bridges to build. Accounts to balance. Hungry to feed. Feet to wash. Deaths to die. Souls to woo. Books to be written. There are Sabbath rests to take, and fields to walk, and silent prayers to pray that seem to accomplish nothing at all, but accomplish everything instead. Yield. Yield. Yield to Jesus in you.

The Creator flows in You, alive and rushing. Drink Him up, swim, and be baptized, and baptize in Him, Child. Yield to the One who made you to remake. Walking with Him, you will form because you were formed, and nothing else will do for it. There is birthing yet to be done. I can feel it in you.

And if God wills, when I am a grey old woman, I will gather around my red-headed grandtales, and the freckle-cheeked grandtamings, and the shy grandsongs, and the grandgardens of your hand. I will kiss them all and laugh a deep old laugh. Because this is the story of us, the story the Maker making through us. It is full as one that has always been written.


16 Comments

  1. Jennifer K.

    This is so lovely and so deep….there is so much to appreciate here but the one statement that flew into my heart like an arrow was ” Mind the temptation to do for God instead of in God.” I always count it a good day when the Spirit reveals a undying truth that I need to hear….thanks for being the vessel by which it came.

  2. Sharon

    “A story emerges from the womb of a soul, screaming and sucking in the air of our world, exhaling the air of another.” — Exquisite!!!

  3. Jeremy

    I’m literally sitting here with chills. That was one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever read. For some reason, I couldn’t help but think of George MacDonald as I read this…

  4. Kim F

    I cried the first time I read this. And each subsequent time. And again now. I want to be that old women that can say “I will gather around my red-headed grandtales, and the freckle-cheeked grandtamings, and the shy grandsongs, and the grandgardens of your hand. I will kiss them all and laugh a deep old laugh. Because this is the story of us, the story the Maker making through us. It is full as one that has always been written.”

  5. Carrie Luke

    I have started printing out Becca’s letters and have placed them in a notebook for each of my daughter’s. Her series got me thinking about making a type “wisdom journal” that I wanted to give them when they head off to college. Thanks Becca for leading me from a far and helping me lead them.:)

  6. JON SLONE

    “These creations are to be wrought through our particular temperament and training in the power of holy company.”

    This stuff is butter!

    And not that junk in the blue bottle with the yellow spray-nozzle labeled; “I can’t believe I’m still alive and eating this.”

    So Good

  7. Leslie Sheridan

    Bec is likely the single most influential person in my life. She is the one that so simply and yet so profoundly explained the meaning of the word ‘grace’ to me when I was a young 18 year-old college student. Her writings continue to be influential in my life in a way that is hard to describe. She is a jewel of a woman – with many facets, indeed. I am so blessed to call her friend and am so glad there are other folks out there that are appreciating her work as much as I do. Thanks for posting it on the RR. 🙂

  8. Becca

    Thanks for the encouragement, folks. It’s sweet to write in company as rich as yours.

    Leslie! You caught me here! I love my sweet friend. You’ve always been so beautiful and so bright. Big old hug.

  9. April Pickle

    Confession: I saw this in Story Warren and I didn’t want to read it. And then I saw it here, and I didn’t want to read it. I ASSumed it was going to make me feel like an inferior parent, that it would tempt me to be mired down with guilt and shame. But I just read it (after the sacrament of communion and a good nap), and I sure am glad I did.
    Thank you, dear God, for this.
    Thank you, dear Becca, for this.

  10. Becca

    Oh, April. If something I write ever sucks the hope out of your chest, I want you to write me and tell me. Love to you, friend.

  11. April Pickle

    @Becca. My doubts and fears are certainly not your fault, but it’s not surprising to find your grace here in the midst of them. Thank you bunches, and love straight back.

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